"You cannot shake hands with a clenched fist." -- Indira Gandhi

But you can play rock paper scissors with a clenched fist! Which means if you’re rock you’re chances of survival are one and three odds or thirty-three point three repeating. That’s about as close to fighting I’ve ever get. I’m a lover not a fighter. Arguing is something I like to do or rather debate, and discuss the issue. I’ll sometimes get angry with the situation and stomp off or raise my voice a little but lift a hand, never. I try really hard to never reach that state of raising my voice to begin with. When I do though people know to listen up but I tend to do it to people whom I barely know because I seldom have issues with people who I have relationships with.